I received this article in an email today from The Demartini Institute in South Africa and thought it was worth sharing. It shows how we can always find blessings in any crisis and in so doing remain present and grateful in any given situation. I especially love this part:

“When we are challenged, we calm our unrealistic fantasies about life, it quells our need for instant gratification. It forces us to be introspective about what we really truly want out of life, it teaches us not to live beyond our means and it brings us back into equilibrium.”

Now that’s food for thought…..

Below is the entire article as per the email:

The deflation of the global markets, devaluation of th Rand and the decline in spending is impacting most South Africans. Some people may be going to bed each night wondering if their job is secure and how much longer they can afford their mortgage. Business owners may be worried about the next pay day and workers wondering how to add more value to avoid retrenchment.

Dr John Demartini, human behaviour specialist, says the world is not ending, despite the apparent turmoil. So it is unwise to panic and become overly anxious and burden ourselves with even further with unhealthy stress and aging!

We make much wiser decisions when we stop and center ourselves before we emotionally react. Whether the markets are going up or down, when we begin to wisely manage our emotions, we are more able to adapt and transform great challenges into even greater opportunities. As Warren Buffet has taught, until we can manage our emotions we can’t expect to manage our lives or our monies.

Dr Demartini has a clear message: “Every event has two sides. The universe conserves this balance. So in these crunch times, it is important for us to not lose sight of both sides of life’s equation.” It may seem to the populace of the world that the current situation is a loss without gain, destruction without construction, but this is not the whole truth, for ignorance blindly sees only one side.
History has taught us that out of the ashes rise great opportunities and that any challenge can be transformed when we know how to ask a new set of questions and shift our perceptions and then actions. For example difficult market times can make us place a higher value on conservatively saving, thereby increasing the chances of wisely accumulating future wealth. Losing a job may be the catalyst for creative entrepreneurialism. Chaos can bring unity and awakening to a new order. Look how the world leaders have united in their will to restore stability to the world markets.
Here are some examples of perceived challenges with their compensatory blessings which may help you bring an awareness of the other side. Reading these may assist you in allaying your fears around the challenges associated with the temporary loss of money.
Depressed: If you, or someone you love, are experiencing feelings of depression or suicide, know that when you take the time to see and count the blessings in your current situation, that you alleviate the tensions in your mind. If you look you will become aware of the blessings such as increased support, love and advice from family and friends. There are many more so take the time look. There is never a crisis without a blessing. When a door shuts a window opens. It is now time to count your blessings.

Credit Crunch: As government introduces credit restrictions, lenders become more accountable which will provide for a stronger economy in the future. It also means you are protected from making foolish decisions that could affect your tomorrow. It will make you prioritize your purchases, which will trim your fat and make you more efficient and lean. This can certainly pay you and save you in the future.
Losing a job: Losing your job could open the pathway into a new job you really love and it can be the catalyst for going after a long sought dream. You may find yourself generating new ideas which awaken your entrepreneurialism. Being free from the perceived ‘security’ of your previous job may assist you discover the courage to start up your own company. A retrenchment package could become the capital for a new business.
Restructuring: In good times, companies tend to become over-fed and overlook the decline of inefficiencies. Recessionary times force companies to become lean, fine tune their marketing campaigns, streamline all areas of ineffectiveness and create a well oiled machine that prospers when the tide turns.
Employer guilt over retrenchment: You may be setting someone free to fulfill their dream. By streamlining the company you give job security to those who remain behind and by doing so you have the most efficient team to help you ride the turning tide when the market increases thereby making it possible to hire more people down the line. You may help former employees become more prosperous in the long run since they can now become even more daring and begin their own companies
Insolvency: Should this occur in your business, you are absolved of all business debt, released from all the pressure of figuring out how to pay it back. You get to start afresh but with all the business learnings from the past. And you get to discover that your friends and family still love you no matter your situation.
Hard times: It could mean streamlining your purchases to things you truly value, changing your financial management and increasing your portion of future savings. Ultimately this is the key to long-term financial success. Outside challenges often unite families to figure solutions towards a common goal. It can prevent your children from taking things for granted and initiate them into the realities of providing others great quality service and mastering fair exchange
Not being able to afford lifestyle: Friends and families become innovative and spend more quality time with each other. Example fathers playing sport with their kids rather than paying for them to go to sports coaches. Imagine what benefits there are to having family members learning to more deeply appreciate what they still do have.
Difficulty getting start up funding: Bank lending is at a minimum making it difficult to fund a new business. This forces entrepreneurs to fine tune their business plans and present a sound plan that ensures success and loan repayment. This gives you a level of certainty for your future business success. Easy money can be the recipe for complacency and failure.
Can’t afford the holiday: Overseas holidays bring their own stresses like visas, over-spending, busy airports, delayed planes, lost luggage etc. It forces us to take a less expensive local holiday which boosts the SA economy or it forces us to stay home and get our homes into order which brings a peace of mind all of its own. Remember, peace of mind is in fact the definition of a true holiday. We also get to link up and deepen relationships with friends who find themselves in the same situation. If we help others give and receive what they would love we tend to give and receive what we would love.
When we are challenged, we calm our unrealistic fantasies about life, it quells our need for instant gratification. It forces us to be introspective about what we really truly want out of life, it teaches us to not to live beyond our means and it brings us back into equilibrium. These are all long-term blessings. When we transform our crises into blessings we catalyze others to do the same.

Customer Testimonial

We were made to feel comfortable and relaxed.The photos came out amazing, beautiful and sensual.My Facebook page was flooding with compliments when I posted the photos…


- Luizette Do Espirito Santo

View all testimonials

Quick Quotation

Name

Daytime Contact Number

Email


Specify if others:

Louise Diesel Photography

See our latest work in our many galleries!

Louise Diesel Facebook Louise Diesel Facebook